爱华网投行人士的婚外情
瑞信女控诉渣打小三，以及无耻老公的回复，还有小三的回复，以及正房对小三回复的回复。
后面还有番外篇
附送cc信件中的人物分析：
yiyang_tao@ml.com 陶忆阳 Merrill Lynch (Asia Pacific) Limited
Sun, Yonghong 孙永红 摩根大通银行中国不良资产部总经理
PS:可怜了小三的哥哥，一个老好人，名字总在抄送的前茅 (via @yimaobuba)
另：渣打小三的那个神秘圣诞节照片全曝光！http://is.gd/aLuQc
(小三和男主角)
（其实中文翻译才是亮点）
—–邮件原件—–
——————–瑞信女的控诉——————————
发件人: Zhang, Lily [mailto:lily.zhang@credit-suisse.com]
发送时间: 2010年2月23日 10:23
收件人: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean;Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles;Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com;delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com;dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com;euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai,Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting;Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei; xujane@gmail.com;Prince, Jamaliah
抄送: Yale Yang
主题: Dear friends … Moving on ..
Dear friends,
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I haveparted our ways. Yale moved out last week.
Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,
Over the past couple of years, you knew everything about my family.You knew when my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew whenthey had their swimming practices. You even knew their babynicknames. On December 18th, 2009, on a noon flight, I took mychildren to the U.S. for Christmas vacation. On the very same day,December 18th, 2009, on an afternoon flight, you and Yale took offfor the beaches of Phuket and shopping streets of Bangkok forChristmas vacation. Diane, as a fellow woman, I often wondered ifthe level of ecstasy this vacation had brought you equates to thelevel of devastation this vacation had brought to my children andme. Diane, I often asked myself what was it like for you to sleepin the arms of another woman’s husband, other children’s father? Iwondered if you ever thought about us, the children and the wife,that we are made of flesh and blood, that we have feelings, that wecould get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. I pondered if youknew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joy would bringendless tears to us.
We went to Beijing last week for Chinese New Year. Your clotheswere in our Beijing home. My son screamed:” Mommy, don’t touchthose, they are disgusting! Set them on fire, burn them to hell.They are the devil’s cloth!” My children are hurt. My daughter, 9years old, now says “Mommy, I don’t ever want to get married.” Myson, 8 years old, says “Diane is our Voldemort!” The psychologicaldamage this affair has done to my children is catastrophic. Theyare forever emotionally damaged. With this, I announce you thewinner.
How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like 10 thousand knivesstabbing and chopping my heart all at once. This affair has left mein so much pain that I don’t know how to heal myself. This affairhas taught me tear supply can actually be infinite. This affair hascrushed me, leaving me a corpse walking around with no heart. Idon’t know how to deal with this kind of pain. I don’t know how tomove on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I pray to Godthat you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal andhurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all,we are all women and we all deserve to be happy.
With sincere regards,
Lily
————————老公的回复————————————-
发件人: Yale Yang [mailto:yale.yang@gbridge.biz]
发送时间: 2010年2月23日 11:14
收件人: Zhang, Lily
抄送: Tao, Diane; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean;Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles;Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com;delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com;dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com;euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai,Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting;Cheung, Clara Siu Yum
主题: Re: Dear friends … Moving on …
Lily,
Please do not bring the personal issues to the public. The truthof the facts is that our marriage had been falling apart 8 yearsago, divorce had been in discussion 5 years ago. Our issues areknown to all the people in the word! Diane had done nothing wrongfor her part! I am firmly standing by and behind Diane. I willcertainly hope she will marry me one day soon!
Trying to tell the people how evil I am and Diane is in this wayis not going to succeed! All the people, who knows you, me and ourmarriage, supported my divorce, including my good friend Zhu Wei. Iam sorry I have dragged everyone into this. Lily please moveon!
Sincerely yours
Yale
—
———–据说小三的回复——————-
发件人: Tao, Diane
发送时间: 2010年2月25日 10:25
收件人: Zhang, Lily
抄送: Yang, Yale; yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean;Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles;Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com;delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com;dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com;euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai,Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting;Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei; xujane@gmail.com;Prince, Jamaliah
主题: Re: Dear friends … Moving on …
Dear Lily,
亲爱的lily，
我明白你现在正经历着个人生活的低谷和感情方面的困境，而我真心的希望你能找到一个对你，对孩子都好的方法来解决这件事情。我确实很理解你的感受。另一方面，我想，婚姻只可能从内部开始破裂，而你居然把我抵毁成你们家的破裂者，我绝对不愿意。你自己心里也清楚，你和YALE的婚姻早在我俩见面之前就破裂了，不管我有没有出现在YALE的生活里，你们的婚姻都已经无药可救。我相信你自己心里也清楚。但你还是执意要把我当作你们婚姻失败的替罪羊，简直让我觉得幼稚可笑。另外，你所描述的，你的孩子们遭受的感情伤害确实让人头痛，虽然我对此无能为力，但我很想知道，你究竟跟他们都灌输了些什么？我认为一个母亲的天职应当是保护自己的孩子不受各种感情伤害，而不是利用他们去博得公众的同情。YALE是孩子的爸爸，而且永远都是，他肯定会一直都疼爱孩子，而且尽可能的当一个最好的父亲。难道你不应该告诉他们，他们的爸爸妈妈都一样爱他们，虽然其中一个只是不能跟他们一直都在一起而已？这样不是更有意义吗？我不明白你教他们去恨他们的爸爸有什么好处呢？
你问我睡在YALE的臂弯里是什么感觉，我也想问你，LILY，你为啥非要逼压根不喜欢你和你在一起呢？LILY，你智商算高吧，学历很高，你还有一份受人尊重的高薪工作。你为啥还要花这么时间和精力去逼一个不在乎你的人去和你在一起呢？作为一个同龄人我想跟你说，你不觉得你的下场应该比现在好点吗？如果还有比睡在别人老公怀里更郁闷的事，那就是睡在一个讨厌你，无法忍受你，恨不得马上逃离你的人怀里。LILY，为什么你要把自己搞成这样呢？再问一次，你难道不觉得你应该活的更好吗？
我真诚的希望你现在所遭受的感情困扰能够尽快散去，同时翻开你人生新的一页。请你记住，你可以丢掉你的工作，也可以丢掉你的另一半，但你绝不能放弃自己。另外，别把你的负面情绪撒到你的孩子身上，他们是无辜的，请你记住，要把孩子的感受放在第一位而不是你自己的。你应该有真正的快乐，我也希望你能尽快好起来。
I understand that you are going through a difficult time in yourpersonal life, and I sincerely hope that you will find a way todeal with it that is the best for you and your children.
I do understand how you feel. I also understand, however, that amarriage can only break apart from the inside. I do not appreciateyour attempt to smear my re@#$@*&tion and paint meas the home wrecker. You know as well as Yale does that yourmarriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met. Whether or notI am in Yale’s life has nothing to do with the eventual outcome ofyour marriage. I am sure you understand this as well, but younonetheless sought to burn me on the cross as the scapegoat foryour failed marriage, which I do not believe is a mature thing todo.
Your description of the emotional damage your children havesuffered is disturbing indeed. I cannot help but wondering what youhave been telling them. I would think that a mother’s first andforemost priority is to protect her children from any emotionaldamage, rather than using them as bargaining chips with a spouse oras props to win public sympathy. Yale is the children’s father andwill always be. I am sure he will always love them and be the bestfather he can be to them. Wouldn’t it make more sense, for the sakeof the children’s wellbeing, to emphasize to them that both theirparents will always love them even though one parent will not beliving with them all the time? I do not see what benefit therecould possibly be to teach the children to hate their ownfather.
You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale’s arms. I alsowanted to ask you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to someonewho clearly does not want to be with you at all? Lily, you areintelligent, highly-educated and you have a high-paying andwell-respected job. So why did you spend so much time and energytrying to force someone who does not care about you to stay withyou? As a fellow woman I want to ask you this, don’t you think youdeserve better? If there’s anything that is worse than sleeping inthe arms of another woman’s husband, it is sleeping in the arms ofsomeone who resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run awayfrom you whenever he gets a chance. So Lily, why would you want toput yourself in that situation? Once again, don’t think you deservebetter?
I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling willsubside soon and you can turn a new leaf in your life. Pleaseremember, you can lose a job, you can lose a spouse, but you shouldnever lose yourself. And please, do not vent your negative feelingson your children. They are innocent. Please always keep in mindtheir best interests rather than your own. You deserve truehappiness, and I hope that you will find it soon.
Best regards,
Diane
———正房对小三回复的回复———–
抄送: Yang, Yale;
yiyang_tao@ml.com; Sun, Yonghong; Winn,
Sean; Stevens,Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh,Charles; Chu, Mabel;
Yee, Andrew; cici779200@yahoo.com.cn; liyi@junhe.com;delh@junhe.com; josieshen@sbcglobal.net; xy@vicap.com;
dcwyml@hotmail.com; charles@chicapital.com;
euniqueyoung@yahoo.com.hk; Shiu, Ruby; taeyubkim@sc.com; Lai,Daniel Xiao Ming;
Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara SiuYum; Wang, Cindy
Xi; Zhu, Wei;xujane@gmail.com; Prince, Jamaliah
主题: Re: Damn You
Diane:
I thought that you should have dropped your pretentious ego bynow; however your facial skin is much thicker than imaginable.Stunning.
How dare you comment on my feelings? “I do understand how youfeel” – oh really? If you do, you should be shivering under a wallby now, as if you have seen the reaphook of the Death himself. Letme demonstrate you a very small proportion of my hatred towards youwhich is still accumulating, after you robbed my man from my verybed. If one in a thousand of that hate is concentrated in a dropletit is enough to poison a nation. Do you know what fills my mind?Vengeance, retribution. I shall have your head with dropping blood,hang on my walls so that I can appreciate an example of indignityonce every hour. I shall slit your throat before the eyes of your“love”, letting him witness the true blood color of a whore, whichstinks of lust. I can think of a thousand way to end your miserablepathetic life, but why bother? You will burn in eternal flameanyway. Satan has reserved a fine slot for you in Hell, where yoursinful soul will repay an endless debt!
And yet don’t make yourself too conformable either when yourheart still beats. You think it has ended? It never ends. The manwho abandoned me will abandon you in the same cause. Value yourmoment in the arms of Yale, for they will soon find a new mistressafter the depreciation of your inglorious little face. When thetime comes, I shall acquire
immense satisfactory.
Best regards
Lily
下面是抄送所有人的附件，翻了老公的手机，搞到了小三的短信：
From: Danyang Tao [mailto:dytao@yahoo.com]
Sent: 2009年5月28日 19:50
To: Yale Yang
Subject: Re: To my baby!
Baby, I love to read your letter. I am so touched when I readthis: – my love is waiting for you every morning when you wake up!Thank you so much, baby, for your love! I am so proud of being withyou! I miss you a lot. Day and night, whenever, wherever, whatever!Love you, baby!
Sent from my iPhone
豆瓣上高人的翻译
—–先翻一下正房的—–：
亲们：
在一起过了13年，生了俩孩子，这个臭不要脸的男人还是跟我分手了，丫上周滚蛋了。
小三：
这几年你对我们家了若指掌啊。我娃啥时候踢球啥时候游泳你tm都知道，连他们的小名儿你都叫得出来。09年12月18，我前脚带着孩子去美国休假，你tm后脚就跟着臭不要脸的去普吉岛厮混，去曼谷血拼。你丫也是一女人啊，知不知道你们tmd在那边有多high，我们孤儿寡母在这边就有多惨？我要是你，才没脸跟另一个女人的丈夫，还是几个孩子的父亲做这种龌龊事。我们孤儿寡母也是爹妈养大的，有血有肉的，你tm竟然忍心这么伤害我们！你tm就是把你丫的幸福建立在我们的痛苦之上！
上周我回北京过年，竟然看到你丫的衣服那么淫荡地挂在我家里。我儿子哭着喊着让我把它们烧了，忒脏！我闺女才9岁，已经说她以后不敢嫁人了。我儿子8岁，说你是我们家的灾星。你tmd把娃们幼小的心灵彻底整成杯具了。他们这辈子毁你手里了。算你狠！
我呢？我tm现在是万箭穿心啊，疼的没招没落的，悲伤已经逆流成河。我tm现在就是一行尸走肉了。咋办，你说咋办。要不是为了娃们，我也活不下去了。小三儿，我祝福你，祝福你这辈子别重蹈我的覆辙。祝你幸福，祝你全家幸福。
–再翻一下男猪脚的—
这个男人真是杀千刀的：
黄脸婆：
家丑不要外扬好不？咱俩8年前就感情破裂了，5年前就在说离婚了。地球人都知道咱俩的事了，关Diane啥事体？我挺着她呢，我俩马上就结婚了，爱咋地咋地吧。
把我俩说成魔鬼，你就好受了是不？没门！认识咱们的人都说早该离了，撑啥撑啊，连老朱也这么说。各位不好意思把你们拉进来打酱油了。算我求你了行不，你丫快滚。
—–上海话版的翻译—————
第一封：
亲爱额小戴/淘丹阳(音译)
了了古起额婚姻生活当总,弄晓得所有阿拉窝里额情况.弄晓得阿拉小拧额比赛成绩;弄晓得一拉参噶额游泳训练,弄晓得一拉额小名.了了2009年12月18号,无带老一拉乘中浪乡额航班到美国起古圣诞节.就是了同一天,2009年额12月18号,弄帮无老公乘下半捏额航班到普吉岛海滩起白相了,还等了曼谷穷买么司,号称古圣诞节.小戴,同样是女拧,无一直老想晓得,拿册起白相带八弄额惊喜是伐是帮带八无跟小拧额伤害是一样额.小戴,无阿一直了门自噶像弄个能噶困了别额女拧额老公,别额小拧额亚旁边是撒感觉?无爱老想晓得,弄到底考虑古阿拉伐?考虑古小拧帮一老婆伐?阿拉是有血缘关系额呀,阿拉额感觉,可能对阿拉造成额伤害,老痛老痛额伤害,痛的来奥起话一额伤害,弄到底想古伐?我穷想八想到底弄是伐是晓得弄了破坏一额家庭,弄乃弄额开心建立了阿拉额眼粒四高头!
上额礼拜阿拉回到北京古尼,弄额衣裳居然了阿拉窝里,无尼子突乱之间叫起来:”姆妈,
覅起旁一!一拉老窝应额!闹一拉多到火里烧特!个眼才是狐狸精额衣裳!”无小拧伤了深啊!无囡恩,则有9岁,一刚”妈妈,无再阿覅结婚了”无尼子,则有8岁,一刚:”小戴就是则伏地魔”(见哈里波特)个脏事体带八一拉额心理伤害是相当杯具额.一拉永永远远伐会恢复了.是额,无承拧弄赢了.
小戴,无有撒感觉?个脏事体就像无额心八1万步刀子乱戳八戳(千刀万剐);个脏事体带八无噶深噶深额痛苦以至于无根本伐晓得哪能恢复;个脏事体娘无晓得眼粒四原来真额流伐光额;个脏事体完全毁特无了!无现在就是一具则会走路额尸体(行尸走肉).无根本伐晓得要哪能此理个种痛苦;无根本伐晓得要哪能继续生活下去.但是无还有小拧,无必须活下去.小戴,无希望菩萨保佑弄永远阿伐会旁着个种背叛与伤害.无希望弄高亚会得古了开心,因为,刚到底,阿拉才是女拧,阿拉才应该得到幸福.(个女拧哈虚伪…纯属古拧意见)
此致敬礼!
百合花
第二封：
百合花,
谢谢弄伐要闹私拧感情带到工作高头来.现在额事实就是阿拉8年额婚姻生活邦特了,阿拉5年前头就讨论离婚了.全世噶额拧才晓得阿拉额事体额好伐.小戴根本么组粗特撒事体.无绝对登了一背后头撑一额,无覅特想快地帮一结婚噢!
弄想起帮拧噶刚无帮小戴有多少多少坏是伐会成功额,所有拧,才拧得弄个则女拧额,才晓得阿拉额婚姻额,一拉才支持无离婚额,包括无要好额旁有猪尾.无老对伐起拿额,闹拿拖进来.百合花弄继续呀有本事弄继续好来!
此致
亚
——–番外篇———-
先爆点劲爆的引子，瑞信渣打小三事件的番外篇（为何是番外我只能密告安替）新加坡女怒斥中金男，男主角的母亲是人行副行长。不过这男的人很好
先从新加坡女怒斥中金男讲起，话说本人的标准觉得男女谈恋爱只要不长期脚踩多条船，偶然换手的时候有点交错期是可以理解的。能做到这一点的投行男已经很少见了，这位中金同学大体算做到了。但是他引出了另一个教训，千万要小心IT女啊！
话说该中金男和女友若干年前一起去英国读书，在英国认识了一ABCIBM技术女，两人好了几年，该男去香港渣打PE工作后又交了新女友。木有想到ABC怀恨在心，给该男和其新女友分别下了木马，进了他们的邮箱。增补一点，该男在渣打的老板就是渣打小三的情儿
话说该IBMABC看到瑞信渣打小三事件后，深受启发。先冒用中金男的名义把他跟同事议论老板（也就是渣打小三情儿）的邮件转发给了渣打全公司。。。该老板因为被戳穿已经暴怒鸟（完全不是邮件里那个讲理的正人君子样）。然后又用新加坡女的名义发了那封著名的怒斥邮件。(见下）
From: Lhenreittal Y
To: WangleiPE@cicc.com.cn ; wanglei_chn@yahoo.co.uk
Cc:
xinjie@cicc.com.cn ;
caojian@eplanetventures.com ;
cyj@fengshang2002.com ; Stevens, Joe;
alastair.j.morrison@gmail.com ;
zhu.wei@sc.com ; liuzhao@cicc.com.cn
; wangsg@cicc.com.cn
; weiqi@cicc.com.cn
; yaolei@cicc.com.cn
; jrx_1989@163.com ;
xiatian@cicc.com.cn ; lukai@cicc.com.cn
; jiangxq@cicc.com.cn
; fengdy@cicc.com.cn
; zhufeng_fm@cicc.com.cn
; WUXP@cicc.com.cn
; weina@cicc.com.cn
Sent: Fri Mar 12 12:17:58 2010
Subject: WL = Lying Asshole
WL,
you are a liar and a cheater! I left my husband and Singapore foryou,
thinking I can finally find happiness. Last August when wegot
intimate during our Nanjing project, you promised to abandonyour
second fiancée for me. But it’s been seven months and you’restill
telling me to stay hidden because you don’t want our coworkers,your
friends and family to know you’re living with a married woman whois
not your wife. Well, I just found out that the real reason youwant
everyone to think you’re single is because you’re secretlywhoring
around with at least two other 情妇 at the same time! One is amarried
client of SC and the other one is a 21-year-old high schooldropout
from the 峰尚 project where we worked together! I can’t believe youare
screwing around with so many women on company time. Did being onthe
Board of Directors at 峰尚 help you to score? No wonder it alwaystook
you so long to get work done! And I finally understand why youcarried
around three separate boxes of condoms in your brown travel bag.I
always wondered why you bought so many since it’s not like we wereable
to use a lot anyway.
You explained that you were using the
married woman to curry favors from her husband’s business. Howdoes
that explain the intimate exchanges you continue to have afteryou’ve
gone to CICC and why would she offer to buy you expensive gifts?What
“services” do you perform for her? Don’t you feel ashamed thatyour
ex-fiancée subsidized your housing for the last two years and tokeep
you happy, had to buy you expensive things like the USD$300shoes
you’re wearing on your feet and the USD$500 flashlight you keep inyour
car, only to have you turn around and cheat on her?
I’m
telling everyone at SC and CICC you are a 卑鄙小人and not to trustyou
without adult supervision on company projects, because you willsurely
take advantage of company resources to cheat, lie, and sleeparound
with anyone from the office.
Shame on you, WL! Go back to your mommy.v
